具體描述
'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton
Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?
In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:
· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
· Break negative cycles and patterns
· Handle your own and your child's feelings
· Understand what different behaviours communicate
Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.
用戶評價
##Baby is body and all feelings. Synchronize your breath with your baby. And, always be the container for their emotions.
評分##很好看！用詞簡單，容易讀，有很多例子和簡短的有意義的句子。很有啓發性，例如關係是一切的基礎。就是這本書怎麼這麼短呢？
評分##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.
評分##真的希望我父母讀過…babies and children are people，not objects or projects,雖然所有大人都曾經是孩子，可惜很少大人會記得
評分為什麼我纔讀到這本書，這是我四年多傢長生涯讀到最好的一本育兒書。以後我會推薦給每個準備要小孩的人讀。這本書值得我寫一篇很長的體會和筆記，背下來自用。另外我發現自己現在對實用類書籍的興趣超過瞭小說文藝類，自己太無知瞭，現在需要提高的兩個領域是育兒和領導力。
評分##很好看！用詞簡單，容易讀，有很多例子和簡短的有意義的句子。很有啓發性，例如關係是一切的基礎。就是這本書怎麼這麼短呢？
評分##心理醫生給起建議來，還真是何不食肉糜。還是你來問我來答吧。
評分##好書，雖然有些地方讀得很怪，比如說睡眠訓練的地方，但是大體上是一本好書，慶幸娃還小的時候讀瞭，印象最深的幾個地方：（1）說傳統做法都是教孩子要開心，但是負麵情緒不可避免，要認同孩子的負麵情緒，要去幫他們錶達情緒，孩子畢竟小沒有相應的語言能力；（2）也要和小孩用閤作的態度，有問題一起找解決方法；（3）在設定界限時用I- statement，設定界限是因為自己的感受，這一點其實和在其它讀到的有點異麯同工，在和人有衝突時，要多說I feel upset when you shout at me，而非直接去judge去定義對方，you are angry, you are an idiot之類。
評分##簡單易懂理論沒毛病 實踐起來總感覺不是那麼迴事
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